Basics of Unconditional Love

In my last post I requested you to do an experiment. But I think I did not fully explain the procedure. So here are some more details.

I Bow to You – Namaste Procedure

At the end of my last post I mentioned “namaste.” What is namaste? This word is made up of 3 individual words:

“Nama” means bow, “As” means I & “Te” means you, it means “I bow to you.”

The right procedure to do namaste is to bring together both your hands at the middle of your chest. Lower your head so that your chin is approximately in line with the top finger and close your eyes.

I Respect ME

Before bowing to anyone else we need to bow to us first.

Why?

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How Can You Truly Love Someone and Get True Love in Return?

The Secret to Life

This post is inspired by a comment (by Ret) to the following post by Alex Blackwell: The Secret to Life in One Sentence or Less

Here’s the comment:

The secret to life is the one thing that we can hardly do – loving. Love is easier said than done, and to do love is a great secret in terms of reality. Love gives life, and will give eternal life. So my secret to life is true loving.

(By: Ret)

I love these words. Now the question is: What is True Loving?

Before I answer this question, I want to ask a question from you…

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Good Girls are Like Stars

“Girls are like apples… the best ones are at the top of the trees. The boys don’t want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground that aren’t as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think there is something wrong with them, when, in reality, they are amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who’s brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree…”

(Anonymous-Thinkexist-quotations)

I love this quote. I stumbled across it on StumbleUpon. I don’t agree to 1 thing – good girls are not like apples – they’re like stars. Shining high above on the heavens. They look beautiful from down here but are not accessible, at least not with our bare hands.

Sometimes You Fall You Fly…

To access these girls we have to climb high – higher – higher… till we reach the skies… but they are higher than moon or mars or any planet in our vicinity…

The higher we climb – the higher our chances of falling down…

Survival after falling down is not easy, but this climb is worth taking the risk – risking our life…

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First Date Etiquette – Fight Club Rules

Time and again I’ve seen this happening: I’ve had a crush on a work colleague, classmate etc. We used to talk for hours on phone. I either messaged him or he messaged me every other hour.  But last night or last week… he said he needs to move on… I asked him what do you mean? And he said you know what I mean… I cried so much I went to sleep with major pain in my throat and head ….. Did you hear such stories before? I hear such stories every other week… both from girls and guys… Why it happens? They don’t know the rules of the Fight Club – Dating Fight Club.

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Will I Find Love? How to Find Love?

Where is Love?

Love is not available in any market to purchase…

Dates are not hanging on trees…

Beloved is not available in any shop…

To be true the real love is inside you. It’s locked somewhere. Unlock it and you’d have found love…

What Money can Buy?

Money can buy us flowers but not the scent…

Money can buy our bodies but not souls…

Money can buy us mascara but not dreams…

Money can buy us a spring mattress but not peaceful sleep…

Always remember this:

Money comes with love but love does not come with money.

Can You Use Some Shortcuts?

Spraying pheromones, wearing expensive clothes, shiny shoes, gold watches… won’t get you your beloved…

Yes someone will fall for your sports car or the new beach-side villa or your bank balance, but will leave when these things leave.

Just telling jokes, appearing cocky or funny, pickup lines, being a pickup artist… won’t get your beloved…

When you come down to earth leaving all that behind someone’s gonna fall for the real you…

It’s not about lust…

It’s about True Love…

Will You Find Love?

Frankly I don’t know, but I can tell you ways to find love with mathematical accuracy…

How can You Find Love?

You don’t need to find it, it’s always inside you. You just need to give it before getting it…

We often mistake love for a feeling. The feeling is an illusion, infatuation or a fantasy. Love is a verb, it’s about taking action. You will get what you give in a relationship. If you want to be understood, be empathetic, if you want praise, give praise, if you want forgiveness, forgive. Learn to give what you want to receive.

(Tess Marshall – The Bold Life Blog)

How can You Give Love?

It’s easy yet so few people follow it…

Give love to anyone – just anyone…

Give love to the cat that’s in your home… feed her… at least look at her with a smile…

Give love to the dog that may be near you…

Give love to ants that may be in the cup of tea you left open…

Give love to trees that may be in your backyard…

Give love to your computer through which you’re able to look at these words…

Give love to your neighbors…

Give love to every Christian, Muslim, Hindu, Atheist, Buddhist…

Give love to your servant or maid…

Give love to your co-workers, colleagues, boss…

Give love to your wife, husbands and kids…

Give love to your ex, ex husband, ex-wife, ex-girlfriend, ex-boyfriend…

Give love to your work…

Give love to you – your being…

Give love to God…

You’ll find love… You’ll find a date – A truly compatible date… but remember your heart must be clean… clean from all hatred and envy…

If you’re really serious then I suggest reading The Sacred Book of Love…

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Cannibal Women Who Love to Eat Men’s Penises

G-spot in Ears

“For women the best aphrodisiacs are words. The G-spot is in the ears. He who looks for it below there is wasting his time.”

(Isabel Allende)

I can’t agree more to Isabel.

Real Foreplay is All About Telling Sexy Stories.

If you really want to know about women then read what women read; Mills & Boon, Nancy Friday, Barbara Cartland etc. Women fantasize about sexual things that they don’t necessarily want to do in real life. The reality is they do want to do it in real life provided they can really trust someone with those innermost feelings. How to develop that kind of trust? You need to do some reading (Read The Sacred Seduction if you haven’t already done it.)

It’s only after we introduce the element of fantasy into sex we take her to a ride to a faraway land of her dreams. That land is detached from all the harsh realities of life – from babies crying, grocery hassles, cleaning, internet, emails, twitter, facebook… The only equipment you need to take her to that fantasy land is your mind…

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